Saturday Day 12 – My incision itches!

Saturday Day  12 –  3/19/11   My incision from my back surgery itches!

 Medications: Friday, the day before: Tylenol #3 with Codeine (TC3) and a Robaxin at 4:30 am to start the day.  Extra Strength Tylenol at 9:00 am and 3:00 pm.  I took another TC3 and Robaxin at 9:00 pm and went to bed at 10:00 pm.  I woke up at 12:30 am and 2:00 am.  At 2:00 am I took a TC3 and Robaxin as the outside area of my right hip and iliatric crest was aching.  It is 5:30 am at the time of this entry and I suppose at 6:00 am I will take another TC3 to start the day.  

As I was saying, my incision itches!  I could scratch it but it is not covered with a bandage and I do not want to cause an infection.  I also do not want to make any of the self-dissolving stitches come loose any sooner than they are supposed to.  Because the stitches dissolve, one of my instructions from the doctor (and not my wife) has been to only shower every other day.  If you have visited me and I looked nasty and smelt bad, that wasn’t my day!  Using a wash rag and toweling off is not the same; especially when one wants to wash their hair.  You roll the dice when you visit me because if I have not had a shower you might think you were visiting Red Skelton.  No pictures please!

I was talking to a good friend yesterday and we both agreed that sometimes it seems like the healing process is very slow and that nothing is going on.  But I know that something is happening for at few important reasons.  First, people have been praying for me – and God answers prayers.  Second, my incision itches!  And third, my bones ache!  At least the part they sawed off and the places they pinned together do.  The aching and itching is definitely a sign of healing even though I cannot see it.  It reminds me of what Jesus said about a farmer sowing seeds in Mark 4:26-27:

And He was saying, “The kingdom of God is like a man who casts seed upon the soil;  and he goes to bed at night and gets up by day, and the seed sprouts and grows—how, he himself does not know.”

 Just as the seed grows without the farmer being able to see it, our bodies heal without our being able to see the day to day progress.  There are things that happen and occur in the physical world and in the spiritual world which we don’t always know about.  The farmer has faith that the seed tended to properly will be blessed by God and grow.  You can have faith too that God is at work within your body and that a process of physical healing is going on.  Faith, the bible says in Hebrews 11:1 is “The assurance of things hoped for, the conviction of things not seen.”  

Follow your doctor’s orders and don’t overdo it.  Tend to yourself properly.  Trust and have faith.  Remember, God has your back.

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Days 8 – 10 – Medications following back surgery

Medication following Spinal Fusion – Days  8 & 9  

 Upon my release from the hospital following my surgery for the fusion of my L4 and L5 vertebrae, I was provided a script for Tylenol #3 with Codeine for pain and Robaxin, a muscle relaxer.  The TC3s stated that 1 to 2 tablets were to be taken every 4 hours as needed for pain.  The Robaxin stated that 1 to 2 tablets were to be taken every 6 hours as needed for muscle spasms.  I took one TC3 about every 4 – 5 hours the first three days I was home.  There were some mild aches and discomfort associated with walking regularly and wearing the brace all day which pushed on my back, my ribs and (in my best Forrest Gump voice) my buttocks.  I only took the Robaxin at morning and bedtime. 

 The impact of the Robaxin was to dry out my mouth a little bit and make me want to nap during the day.  I did not want to nap during the day as the impact of the TC3s was to make me wake up practically every 2 hours at night.  Some of those times I would have difficulty getting back to sleep – as long as an hour.  During those wee morning hours, my mind would race.  I decided I did not want to take any naps during the day and my back was not locking up or spasming out to any degree of discomfort that I could not handle so I laid off the Robaxin during the day. 

 HERE IS A MISTAKE I MADE ON MY MEDICATION FOLLOWING MY SPINAL FUSION.  On day 8, Tuesday as I recall, I took both medications when I woke up at 4:30 am.  At 10:00 am when I decided to take a TC3 (Tylenol with Codeine), I grabbed the wrong bottle and took a Robaxin.  I made the same mistake at 3:00 pm when I was feeling a little more achy and sore than I had the day before.  Imagine that.  I did not notice my mistake until 9:30 pm when I grabbed both bottles to take one of each and go to bed.

 It had been 17 hours since I had a pain pill – so yeah! I was a little more stiff and achy.  And yeah!  My incision did not feel as good as the day before!  But what hurt worse was My Male EGO!  This was the first day my wife left me alone for any period of time.  Lesson to learn is this, “Be sure to know what medication you are taking and how much!”  I took both the TC3 and Robaxin at 9:30 pm and when I woke up and 1:00 am I was back to feeling okay, except for the fact that it was 1:00 and I was awake. 

 Day 9 – Wednesday was relatively uneventful.  I took the right meds (on my own!)  at the right time and everything went okay.  I went to bed at 10:00  pm and slept until 12:30 am when I woke up.  I also woke up at 2:30 am and 4:30 am.  At that point, I got up and started Day 10. 

 My goal for Day 10 now became to wean myself off of the TC3s and to get on the regular Extra Strength Tylenol.  I started off the day with a TC3 and Robaxin at 4:30 am.  The same time I took an Imitrex for a migraine.  I just kept tossing and turning in the bed so I moved to the big navy blue recliner.  I know, it is harder to get out of but I was planning on sleeping for a while.  I did, until 6:00 am.  Felt good too.  I got up okay and started my day of rotating between chairs. 

 10:00 am I took two Extra Strength Tylenol.  I had gone for a 10 minute walk inside at 7:00 am so I now went for a 16 minute walk outside.  I felt good. 

 Another couple of Extra Strength Tylenol at 4:00 pm and 10:00 pm and I now think I am off of the TC3s.  I will see what the night time brings as far as a good night’s sleep.  Hopefully, I will not wake up every two hours ……

 Well, so much for that! Day 11 began at the early hour of 12:30 am and it began with some pain in my hips.  I could not log roll or get comfortable in bed.  I went ahead and took a TC3 for the pain….as I was definitely not ahead of the pain.   I think I woke up because of the pain associated with tossing and turning in bed.  I woke up again in a couple of hours.  2:30 and 3:30 and then I moved to chair in the living room so that I would quit tossing and turning and get some sleep.  LESSON LEARNED:  Okay, try to get off the prescription meds, but don’t be stubborn, go back on if you need to.  Today, I will see how it goes and take as needed.  Maybe one TC3 to start the day, Extra Strength Tylenol during the day and another TC3 at bedtime.  At least, that’s the plan.  (Note: one of the side effects of the TC3s is some pretty weird dreams.  I would be having some crazy dreams and in the middle of the dream think “This is stupid”.  So be prepared, you may be at work thinking you have a new team that starts off the day with Ninja calisthenics all the while remembering that you are not supposed to exercise.  Or you may have dreams where Zombies will chase you….but that’s okay because you can fly and you have already practiced your Ninja moves in a dream before! 

All in all, just be aware of your pain level.  Try some Extra Strength Tylenol from time to time to see if it works okay for you.  My next consideration if I cannot get to a good sleep pattern is to ask my doctor about some Ambien or something.   Today I will try the pain mgt plan referenced above.  I’ll keep you posted; remember, God has your back.

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Unexpected Blessings

The Lord has truly blessed me with a great network of friends over the years, many of whom are not associated with the church I pastor or with my workplace.  As word about my upcoming surgery spread in the weeks leading up to the operation, I found that there were several people who wanted to put me on their prayer lists or simply follow-up with my recovery as individuals so that they could pray for me.  Let me tell you, I am fine with letting others pray for me.  Prayer changes things.  Prayer is not just our way to converse with God but it is also our way to exercise our faith.  And our faith, though it be small like a mustard seed can move mountains.  Who am I to not allow someone else to exercise their faith?  If you are out there and you want to pray for my recovery, for my family, for God’s work in me and through me, you most certainly have my permission!  

 A friend who I have not seen in some time heard about my upcoming surgery via an email prayer chain.  He prayed for me and sent me an email and offering this blessing and these words of wisdom, “I pray God would give you a double blessing of His Grace and Patience during your recovery time.  I encourage you to look out for His unexpected blessing during this time.”

 My friend knows how tough it is for me to sit still and he knows that I will need the patience and grace that only God can provide during my recovery time.  I like that fact that my friend reminded me to look for unexpected blessings during this time.  I have found some and would like to briefly share a few of them with you.  

  1.  Reconnecting with old friends.  I have received calls, cards, email, facebook friend requests and prayers from some special people that I have not connected with in a while.  That has been a blessing.
  2. A blessing to see once again how strong my wife is.  Marta took such good care of me while I felt bad.  She did such a wonderful job of being my helper and my advocate while in the hospital.  She was worn out from her own lack of sleep but she was a trooper.  I am so blessed to have a wife who loves me so much!  Thank you Lord for giving me a loving wife and a strong marriage. 
  3. A wonderful support network through the church.  I have received prayers, cards, meals and phone calls.  Everyone has been awesome!  The Lord has blessed me to be a part of a great congregation.  
  4. Good time for reading.  I have had the time to read and prepare outlines for my next four sermons.  I have not completed them yet as I want them to be fresh the week of delivery.  But I will be ahead of the game when I return to the pulpit and will not feel rushed.  Thanks Lord! 
  5. An opportunity to start this blog!  I wanted to record and chart my progress with more than just a walking chart and this is a great outlet.  I can also use the forum for ministry work going forward.  Thanks Lord! 
  6. Special Gift from God. On the last weekend before I had my surgery and would not be able to pick up my granddaughter for at least 6 months, possibly more depending on what the physical therapist says and how fast my granddaughter grows, God gave me a special gift.  My granddaughter who always let me pick her up but who had never come up to me and held her arms up as a sign for me to pick her up kept doing it over and over and over.  I held that child all day long!  It was truly a blessing to get in as much holding and carrying time as possible on that last weekend prior to the surgery.  Thanks Lord!

 

 I know that the journey before and after surgery is different is for everybody. The details and experiences will vary.  But I do know that this one factor will be the same; there will be unexpected blessings along the way.  Expect them.  Look for them.  Cherish them.  We serve a God who loves to bless us.  We serve a God who has our back.

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First Full Day Home – Spinal Fusion Recovery

Day 7 – Monday First Full Day Home  This was a good day but an early day.  I say an early day because I woke up at 2:00 am and could not get back to sleep until 3:35 am or so.  At least that was the last time I looked at the clock.  My wife was scheduled to get out of bed about 5:15 am to head to work but she was exhausted from watching over me most of the week before.  She decided to take off one more day just to get some rest for herself.  I got up at 5:00 am and she slept until 7:00 am.  My time was spent in 15 to 20 minute increments moving from the chair at the kitchen table to the tall Elizabethan recliner and then back to the bed to lay on my side for awhile.  Luckily we have one of those beds that you can jump on and not spill wine.  You can also do  the “Log Roll” after surgery and not wake up your spouse.  See the Page on Week One if you forgot how to “Log Roll”.  Why keep moving chair to chair to bed?  As part of the precautions a person is not supposed to stay in one place more than 20 minutes.  I had a relative who operated like that but I think it was because he owed people money.  You will be changing places frequently so that you are not putting too much pressure on the spine and so that you do not get bed sores by just lying or sitting in one position all the time.  You will want to get up because the brace is uncomfortable. 

 Our tall breakfast chairs at the kitche table (padded with a pillow) and the Elizabethan recliner (21 yrs old!) were the most comfortable for me.  Have some books ready to read or an I-pad or something to do to occupy your mind.  You can work on a laptop if you observe TRULY excellent posture – but it will only be for 10-15 minutes at a time and will only  be once every 2 hours or so.  But reading books or online articles via an i-phone, or an i-pad or just reading the bible and taking notes in prep for sermons to come will help you to take your mind off of your brace.  Don’t do rocket science or your taxes as your mind will wander due to the medications and you will not be on your best game.  But be prepared to stay mentally active for short periods of time.  Perhaps that is just the codeine talking or perhaps it is due to the fact that I am the adult poster child for ADD.  

 Here is a picture of our living room.   

The light blue chair (the Elizabethan I mentioned earlier) is my favorite because of the tall straight back.  It is padded but is still firm.  It reclines and goes into a position very similar to a hospital bed.  It is comfortable.  The seat is not too deep or too low as opposed to the dark navy rocker recliner which is also very comfortable but somewhat hard to exit.  The couch also has recliners on the end but they are hard to UNrecline when one is ready to exit.  One must use their legs to push the recliner portion back into place and YOU SHOULD NOT DO THAT FOLLOWING A SPINAL FUSION.  One note; be careful with blankets.  On this day, the doctor’s office called me back and I did not have my phone beside me at that time.  I became tangled up in the blanket trying to exit the chair.  That could have been bad news.  I did not worry about answering the phone. My wife was outside for a few minutes and she trusted me not to hurt myself.  I could not let her down on the first day!  Be careful with your blankets, pets, and anything else that may trip you.  RULE #1 for RECOVERING from SPINAL FUSION – DON’T FALL!

 Here is a picture of one more chair that can be helpful for some people.  

  

Yes, it is the potty chair.  It elevates you so that you do not have to squat down so much.  It has handles to help you stand up and is very helpful.  

 My Complications from SPINAL FUSION:  During the 3.5 hour surgery I was lying face down.  Apparently there was some pressure and this aggravated a groin injury from the prior year.  Let me say that where I don’t sound so old or feeble.  In early 2010, I was jammin’ some hoops and scoring like a fool and some young dude got upset and took me out when I was on my way to yet another layup – and I ended up with a severe groin injury.  I had major tears in that area and it took about 8 months to go away.  It was back.  I could walk fine but lifting my right leg sideways to put on my jeans, etc was “No Bueno”.  

 The “Gopher” a grabber and Reacher tool from Walgreens, available for $9.99 was a fantastic help for getting dressed.

The Gopher was also great for picking up things from the floor, adjusting the blanket over my toes, and a myriad of over things.  My wife who is 5’2” even used it to adjust the speed level of the ceiling fan!  

 On this day, I made my own walking chart.  I had one from the Physical Therapist office but the squares were too small.  I entitled it “My Patience and Obedience Chart”.  I did not call it “My Victory Chart” or my “How do you like me now?!” chart because for me the main thing will be not to OVER DO it.  I called it my patience and obedience chart because I am planning to limit myself to 45 minutes per day the first five days – IF that feels good to my body.  I will not do more than that.  I am not capturing the various 2-3 minute walks between chair rotations.  I set the microwave timer for 10 minutes and walked in the house twice in the morning.  I did two walks outside for 12 and 13 minutes respectively.  My wife went with me on the outside walks.  I did not have to use a walker following my TLIF and Spinal Fusion. 

  Medications during day 7:  Tylenol #3 at 5:00 pm with a Robaxin.  Tylenol #3 at 11:30 am, again at 4:30 pm and then at 9:30 pm.  

 About 5:00 pm another person from the church brought by a complete dinner and some words of encouragement.  They let us know that we were missed and that they were still praying for us.  Let me tell you that is so encouraging.  If you don’t have friends that will pray for you, find a bible believing church in your neighborhood.  Put that on your list of things to do.  Because they are a bible believing church, they will pray for you.  If you cannot get out to do that, send me a reply, tell me what is on your heart and I will pray for you.  I believe in prayer.  The bible says in Psalm 116:1-2

  I love the LORD, because He hears my voice and my supplications.  Because He has inclined His ear to me, Therefore I shall call upon Him as long as I live.  Psalm 116:1-2

Those are words of truth.   It is not that there is anything special about me or my voice; the simple fact is that God hears our prayers.  God is good, He has your back.

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Week One – The Journey Begins

Introduction:  

Good morning, let me introduce myself.  My name is Phillip.  I am 47 years old, have been married happily for 26 years, have two wonderful children, a great son-in-law and the cutest granddaughter you ever did see.  Up until March 8, 2011; I also had Spondylolisthesis and Spinal Stenosis.  These two conditions had been impacting my quality of life for about 22 years.  The impact was first felt when I worked for a drywall company.  I carried bundles of drywall all day long.  At 5’11 and about 160 pounds I was in good shape.  I worked hard to keep up with guys much bigger and stronger than me.  And I did good too!  No brag, just fact.  However, one Saturday morning, I was done in when I took out the garbage and flung the five pound hefty bag into the dumpster.  My back locked up and I was curled up like a spider.  It cleared it after a few days – after all I was 25, and I went back to carrying drywall.  The next bout did not come for a few years.  I think it came after a hard 2.5 to 3 hours of basketball on a Monday night at the church.  I went to see the doctor and received my first diagnosis of Spondylolisthesis.  He told me I should take it easy, take some steroids and wait at least 10 – 15 years before I even consider surgery. 

 I did my best to take it easy and still maintain my athletic lifestyle.  I still ran 4 to 5 times a week (approximately 4 miles each time in about 32 minutes) and I lifted weights using machines that did not load my spine.  I pretty much maintained my weight and a good level of physical health.  By 2011 I was still 5’11 and up to 176 pounds on the day of surgery. 

 The flare ups have become more common over the years.  I had tried 3 spinal injections during the prior 5 months with no lasting relief.  The pain was persistent every day in my right hip/buttock area and of course, the lower back.  I had not played basketball in months and at the urging of my regular back doctor and my wife I had planned on never really playing again.  My regular back doctor at Austin Spin Clinic (who had done a very good job) said that he had done all that he could do and we were just putting on band-aids that were being less and less effective for shorter periods of times, steroids, injections, etc.  He suggested I talk to the surgeon.  I agreed. 

 I talked to a wonderful surgeon at Austin Spine Clinic.  He said the situation called for a L4 and L5 spinal fusion, posterior lumbar spinal decompression with cages and a Laminectomy.  This is what is referred to by most patients as spinal fusion or simply “back surgery”. 

 This blog is meant to record my journey and hopefully share some insight of what to expect.  Please let me add the following disclaimers.  I am not a doctor, and I don’t’ even play one on TV.  Everybody’s journey is different.  Everybody heals at a different rate.  This is just what I experienced. 

Pre-Op Planning:    My main concern and prayer going into my surgery is that I will be patient and not worry about anything during my recovery time.   See, I am a fairly busy person.  Over the years I have worked in an office; for a great insurance company; Farmers Insurance.  I have been blessed to work for them for 21 years now and they have been very good to me.  During that time not only have I have been blessed with a wonderful career but I have made some wonderful friends within the company.  There are people I can call on anytime night or day from Farmers and they will come running.  God has been good to me!  I have also been blessed to serve in ministry and am a bivocational pastor.  I pastor Onion Creek Baptist Church.  It is a wonderful congregation on the South East side of town.  I can also call on any of them anytime day or night.  Come look us up if you get a chance.  Well, back to lining things up. 

 If you are going to go through this surgery, let your employer know well in advance.  That way you can help train your replacement or do some big report in advance and have one less thing to worry about and encumber the healing process.  I had about 6 weeks to do this.  This amount of time allowed me to get the Leave of Absence paperwork started, and the cross training for my desk started.  The time also allowed me find some great pulpit supply for the church.  I was able to connect with some old friends and rest assured that the flock would be in good hands during my absence. 

 Take care of other things too.  Who will watch the dogs, the kids, the cat, the husband?  Who will mop the floor, mow the grass and do those things you will not be able to do for 1 week? 2 weeks?  6 months?  Make a list that of priorites to take care of prior to surgery.  Men, buy a mirror for the shower so that you won’t have to bend over to shave.  Buy some new underwear and pajamas to take to the hospital.  Buy some undershirts to go under that brace you will be wearing all day long.  At home, put everything you need at waist level because trust me, you will not feel like bending over!  Have that dog’s nails trimmed two weeks before surgery.  When they see you that first day back they will jump on your legs!  If there is something that you think you may need to have done, make a list.  Schedule it out prior to the surgery and then make it somebody else’s list!  Go into the surgery knowing that all you need to do is rest and recover!  That is your Pre-Op Plan.  Another item to include in your plan is prayer.  Pray for strength to follow the doctors orders and be sure to let others know the areas you are concerned about so that they can join with you in prayer.  The bible says in Philippians 4:6 – 7.

 Be anxious for nothing, but in everything by prayer and supplication with thanksgiving let your requests be made known to God.  And the peace of God, which surpasses all comprehension, shall guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus.               Philippians 4:6-7

That was the Pre-Op Plan for me, prioritize my “Things to do list” and Pray.  Not necessarily in that order. 

Things to Do Before I Have Surgery

  1.  Pray for patience for me, strength for my family and healing for my body.
  2. Mow the Yard
  3. Set up a contract for someone else to fertilize.
  4. Take the dog in for a toenail trimming.
  5. Buy Easy Frozen Paninis for Lunch along with fruit.
  6. Buy those Yogurts I Like for breakfast (since I won’t be running I want to follow a good, healthy diet and not gain weight).  But I want plenty of nutrients so my body can heal. 
  7. Buy a Grabber and Reacher tool.  The Gopher for $9.99 at Walgreens is working great!
  8. Buy a mirror to put in the shower for shaving purposes.
  9. Line up replacements at work and church.
  10. Be sure to give my list to someone else to complete or toss for me after the surgery because then, Rest and Recovering are my Goals.

 Tuesday March 8, 2011 Day One – Marta and I got to the hospital about 7:30 and the people were awesome.  The staff was very nice and they took us back to a room within 15 minutes of our arrival even though we had showed up about an hour early.  We needed to be prepared for a wreck in Austin traffic.  The operation was scheduled for 10:00 but the one my doctor was doing before mine was running long.  He came in to visit with me at 10:10 to let me know he just finished and was going to take a short break.  Did that bother me?  No way!  “That’s okay doc, take five.  I don’t need you cramping up at a crucial point.”  (At least that’s what I said on the inside!)  I let him know that I had been praying for him and I just knew everything was going to be great!  “You take all the time you need Doctor” I said out loud.  The operation finally commenced about 10:45; I think.  I received my IV about 10:30 am and a few minutes later I was given a shot into the IV that Marta who has had a few surgeries in her time refers to as “THE MARGARITA”.  Once I received “THE MARGARITA” I must say I did seem a little more relaxed and lot wittier.   From that point on Day One the details are a little fuzzy.  I don’t remember much more about Tuesday and that’s okay! 

Day Two – Wednesday I woke up and the first thing I noticed was I did not have any of the back pain that I had prior to the surgery!  No pain in the hip bone, etc.  There was some heaviness at the incision site but no back pain.  There were some other discomforts though.  I was nauseated and had a headache.  About 9:00 am the physical therapist came by to take me for my first walk.  Yes, you will be asked to walk the day after surgery.  The walk itself was not that painful for me.  However, the effects of the medication and the general impact of surgery on my body had left me feeling rough.  I still had the IV for maintaining my body’s nutrients and fluids, etc and I had one of the hand held buttons you push for the pain killers.  This allows you to have a shot of pain killer every ten minutes and let me tell you I was hitting that button it like I was surfing channels on cable TV!  Because I am allergic to certain pain medications, I was put on some medication called Dilaudid.  At least I think that was the name.  It should have been called “deluded” because that’s what I was if I thought hitting that button all the time was the answer.  I wasn’t hurting that much but I kept remembering everybody saying before the surgery to, “Stay ahead of the pain.”  Let me tell you I was ahead of the back pain.  The back pain was not even visible in the rear view mirror.  But due to me hitting that button so much, NAUSEA was in the backseat and HEADACHE was behind the wheel!  I believe my over use of the pain medication had made me sick to my stomach.  I was unable to keep anything down – like my migraine maintenance medicines and you guessed it – I got a migraine which only aggravated the cycle of NAUSEA.   NAUSEA soon moved into the front seat. 

 I ended up throwing up big time, the kind where you swear you just lost a toe nail.  Let me assure you, dry heaves after back surgery is no fun.  I could not keep any migraine medicine down long enough for the headache to stop.  On Day Two, Day Three, any day, be sure to know your level of pain.  Yes, stay ahead of the pain, but don’t be so anxious and worried about the pain that you put yourself in a bad spot.  Overmedication is never good.  The pump limits you and you won’t OD, but you may feel like you did!  Did I pray for relief that day?  Yes, I think so.  But even Day two is still a little foggy.  A nurse came in told me, “You look awful.”  Then she added, “Well, this is the worst day of recovery.”  I am sure my prayer was simply, “Help me Lord.”  During this day, my faithful wife Marta was putting cool towels on my head, interpreting my grunts for my nurses and doctors, and watching me take my first of two walks down the hall with my Physical Therapist.   Just as importantly though she was letting me know she was there for me and letting my friends know my needs so they could pray for me.  The bible says in Galatians 6:2 “Bear one another’s burdens, and thus fulfill the law of Christ.”    Be sure to have your support network ready when you go to the hospital, you’ll need it and appreciate it.  That was Day Two. 

Day Three – Thursday, as I recall.  I was still having headaches and nausea.  I had now been on some anti-nausea medicine called Zophran for a couple of days and it had not helped.  The doctor had added Phenegran to help with the NAUSEA.  This is the equivalent of calling in the big guns.  After having the dry heaves again at 2:00 am, I definitely agreed with the decision.  The only problem is that Phenegran puts me in the monkey zone.  What is the monkey zone you ask?  You know those old monkeys at the zoo that just sit there in the August sun and don’t move?  You know the ones who never blink they don’t even reach out for the peanuts that the kids chunk at them?  That was me!  I was in the monkey zone.  I would mumble every now and then that I had a headache, sip some sprite, take a pill and watch the clock hoping to stifle a gag reflex for at least 20 minutes.  

 This was the day that I had the nurse who was going to “cheer” me into wellness.  During the little neurological tests they give where they ask you to push your feet up, then your knees, then stick out your tongue and then smile, she wanted to see a “bigger smile!!”  What she perceived to be a bigger smile was actually me baring my fangs at her.  I was almost ashamed of myself and would have apologized if she had not so cheerfully pointed out to me that “that this was usually considered to be the worst day of recovery.”  Fortunately before I could bite her and make my headache worse, she was paged and had to leave. 

 Day Three was the beginning of a turn around as my doctor and I discussed utilizing Tylenol #3 with Codeine to fight the pain rather than the pain button.  I began taking the T3s about noon and did not hit the other button all day.  I refused.  I would have if I needed it but my pain was not that bad.  Except for my headache, my back hurt less than before I had my surgery.  My plan was to only use that button, which was still available if I needed it.  Two T3s seemed to work fine every 6 hours.  Still had to hide my eyes from the light and fight nausea, but hey, I was not reading any books and I was trying to get that other medicine out of my system.  Day 3 – at least it progressed with me getting on board with a plan to move forward. 

Day 4 – Friday.  I started off the day and prayed pretty hard.  I was feeling a little better but still had the headache.  I asked the Lord to make this a break through day.  When it was pill time at 6:00 am, I did not feel that bad and I asked if I could only have one T3.  The nurse reminded me to stay ahead of the pain.  I told her I felt pretty good and said that if it did not alleviate the pain sufficiently, I would ask for two next time and hit that pain button in the interim.  I was still on the Phenegran and Zophran and some Reglan (?) for upset stomach.  I ordered some yogurt for my stomach because I knew the impact of being on antibiotics for several days – diarrhea.   I wanted to try to head that off at the pass if at all possible.  During this day I was able to keep down a half of a piece of toast for breakfast, a half of a yogurt for lunch and another half of a yogurt for dinner! 

 The general practitioner in charge after the surgery visited me about 2:00 pm, the first direct visit since day 2 (not complaining, just saying, because she was great!) and saw the wet cloth I was covering my eyes with and said, “You have a migraine.  Those are classic symptoms.”  What I heard her say was, “I see the hiding of the eyes with a wet cloth, the baring of the teeth, and you appear to be in the monkey zone.  We are going to try to migraine medicine again.”  That’s why she’s a doctor. 

 The Imitrex was brought a little while later and I prayed to the Lord to help me keep it down.  He did!  About 75 minutes later my headache was gone!  Thank you Lord!  I was finally able to rest peacefully!  Inside rainbows burst through the clouds, sunlight danced upon the meadow and children sang the Hallelujah chorus!  He did give me a break through on that day!   It wouldn’t be the only break through though. 

 As I was lying in bed about 3:30 pm resting, it seemed like my problems were all behind me.  Then all of the sudden my problems WERE all behind me!  My stomach rumbled and I had the quick, explosive effect of having had antibiotics and a whole lot of medicine for 5 days.  That’s right – the runs, the “quick steps”, Montezuma’s revenge, a.k.a. Diarrhea.  Only problem is a man don’t run so fast after back surgery.  The feet refuse to take quick steps which can cause a problem.  See the prior post about my failure to bring enough clean pajamas. 

 The physical therapist came by and wanted to know if I had been getting up to walk.  “Yes, I have!”  She decided in my current state to come later.  The nurse reported my condition to the doctor who did not want to give me anything for the diarrhea in fear of it locking up my bowel and causing some even worse problems.  This to shall pass I was told.  I am sure they loved telling that one to a preacher. 

 Six o’clock rolls around and though my stomach has slowed down, I am still having issues.  It is always about that time when you have no pajamas and are relegated to your last pair of clean underwear (no pressure) that someone comes to visit.  My such visitor was Deacon Mike.  Deacon Mike was real cool and understood that if he was gonna stay, he was gonna gave to abide by Deacon/patient confidentiality and not tell anybody about my constant shuffling off to the bathroom in my skivvies.  I like a Deacon that can keep a secret.  I also like a deacon that knows when to ask others to pray for an “unspoken prayer request”.   I am glad Deacon Mike got some others praying because that night my stomach problems ended.  The bible says “The effectual fervent prayer of a righteous man availeth much.” Thanks Lord and thanks Mike. 

Day 5 – Saturday , I woke up at 5 and laid in bed watching TV until 6.  The hospital bed was not too hard to get comfortable in.  I had been trying to lay on my side most of the night so that I was not putting as much pressure on the incision.  I wanted to avoid pain and painkillers IF possible.  I wanted to stay ahead of pain but did not want to risk overmedication and let NAUSEA climb back into the car and upset this much more peaceful ride I was enduring.  At 6:00 my nurse helped me to put on my brace.  Once she was assured that my head was clear and I was not dizzy, she allowed me to go for a walk down the hall all by myself.  I had on a gray tank top under the brace and some pajama bottoms – the only pair I brought – which would prove to be a significant detail.  The walk was great.  I went all the way down the hall and met the lady who answers the call button.  This lady had a very nice demeanor and never answered my calls with a tone of “Yeah, what do you need now?” kind of attitude.  I thanked her for her service and her much needed help in the last couple of days.  

 I got back to my room and sat in the chair until 6:30.  Then I called in my breakfast order; scrambled eggs, toast, 2 pieces of bacon and a yogurt.  I finished the eggs, 1 piece of toast, the yogurt and some of the bacon.  (Nobody makes bacon like my wife makes bacon!)  Then because one can only sit up for 30 minute increments, I took off the brace and went back to bed.  I tried to spend an hour in bed and 30 minutes in the chair.  I went for another walk on my own too. 

 At 11:00 am one of the various physical therapists who ministered to me during the week (and it is an important ministry) came by to see me.  I greeted her cheerfully and let her know that I had gone on two walks already but would love to go again.  She said that she did not recognize me.  I don’t think it was because I had shaved for the first time in 3 days either.  (By the way, have someone shave you if you don’t feel good.  Spend some $ on a cheap electric razor so it doesn’t feel like you are pulling them out with pliers when finally shave after several days and you use that disposable razor you brought to the hospital with you.)   I told her my headache was finally gone.  The therapist said, “Good because you were grumpy.”  My wife said, “Yes you were.”  I tried to remember is she was the one I bared my teeth at.  “Did you ever ask me to smile?”  She looked at me funny, and I just apologized.  She laughed and accepted my apology and thanked me for waking with her when I must have felt so bad.  All day long I apologized to everybody I saw just in case I had been grumpy to them too. 

 About 1:00 pm the PA, Physician’s Assistant from the surgeon’s office came by and saw the progress I had made, and that I was eating well and said I would be able to go home the next day as long as I did not have any set backs that evening.  I had only taken on pain pill at 6:00 am and not needed another one yet! 

Everything was going great.  I was tired though and at 7:00 pm I had a temperature of 100.4.  This was higher than it had been all week!  I was worried because the nurse said if it got above 101 they may not let me go home.  About 8:00 pm I took another T3 and some Robaxin, a muscle relaxer and about 11:00 I called my nurse who gave me an Ambien so I could go to sleep.  That was day 5. 

Day 6 – Sunday.   On Sunday I woke up at 5:00 am and felt great!  I got up wnet to the restroom and no diarrhea!  Thank you Lord!  I put on my brace all by myself and went for a trip up and down the hallway.  After making the rounds I got back to my room and rested a bit.  My nurse let me know that I was doing well, my temperature was only 99.3 and that the doctor would likely release me about noon.  I took another walk before we received the paperwork to leave and we pulled out of the hospital parking lot about 11:30.  We headed off to Walgreen’s to drop off 2 prescriptions – Tylenol #3 and Robaxin. 

I had practiced driving with the brace prior to the surgery and wearing the brace prior to the surgery and let me say that riding in the car after surgery is a little more painful.  It is more painful because the brace pushes in on your and seems to put pressure on your incision.  Perhaps the pressure comes from the inside, perhaps the pressure is just in the mind.  I don’t know but I do know it is uncomfortable.  Get used to it.  My brace does not pinch or bind, but I while I am thankful for the job it is doing, I will be glad when I will not have to wear it again. Oh well, 6 months is nothing compared to having a good, strong back for the rest of one’s life.  Anytime I have to do something that is uncomfortable or inconvenient I always think of Philippians 4:13 “I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me.”  Anything God wants us to do, He will helps us to do.

 We arrived home after dropping off the prescriptions and making a quick stop at Sonic – yes, my appetite was back!  Our three little dachshunds were so glad to see me that they were dancing and jumping up and down.  I can see that if somebody had a big dog waiting to greet them they would have to really be careful.  It was awesome to be home.  I went for one more walk that day and tried to rest.  Some friends from the church brought over an enchilada casserole and dropped of some wonderful cards of encouragement.  They let us know that our church family had set up a rotation of people to bring by meals each day for awhile so that I could focus on FOLLOWING DOCTOR’ ORDERS!  It seems everyone was concerned that it would be a fulltime job for my wife to make sure I did not over do it.  It was like they were afraid I would not push too hard and do to much. 

 Let me assure you, I do not want to do anything to compromise a great outcome.  For that reason, I make the following pledge.  On my honor, I will abide by my doctor’s orders; I will take my scheduled medications; I will follow the Lumbar precautions and live by the Girl Scout Law.  I will also chart my walking and observe the 2 hour rule.  If I walk or do something and I am hurting after 2 hours, then I have done too much and need to cut back.  Following are the LUMBAR Precautions following Spinal Fusion. 

 

LUMBAR Precautions following Spinal Fusion

  1.  Log Roll to get in/out of bed at all times.  Move your body as a unit; keep your hips, shoulders and knees in line. 
  2. Alter positions in bed – from supine (lying on your back) to your right side and left side.  Use a pillow between your knees and one behind your back if needed.
  3. Limit bending or twisting!
  4. If you must pick up an object off the floor and a friend is not available and you do not have a Grabber and Reacher tool, then squat and keep your back straight and bend and your knees and hips – NOT your back.
  5. Limit the length of time in sitting to less than 30 minutes at one time.  It is okay to get up to stand or walk, and then sit for another 15 – 30 minutes.
  6. Wear shoes with good support.  NO flip flops!
  7. Take short but frequent walks.  The goal is to walk 3 – 4 times per day.  This does not include the short times of standing between the 30 minutes of sitting.  Gradually increase walking distance and time.  Chart it so that you do not OVERDO it.
  8. NEVER lift anything over 10 pounds.  A full gallon of milk may be too much.   

 Overall the journey through the surgery went much differently than I expected.  I did not expect to have as little back pain.  The only pain I had in the back was from the incision.  I had none of the prior back pain – yay!  But I also did not anticipate the setback with the migraine and the throwing up.  It was difficult but I survived.  I had family and friends taking care of me and praying for me.  The Lord received and answered those prayers.  Yes, through it all, the Lord was good and gracious.  He had my back.  He always has our back. 

Gracious is the LORD, and righteous; Yes, our God is compassionate.  Psalm 116:5

 More posts to follow.

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Hello world!

My name is Phillip.  I am a bivocational pastor and I am 47 years old.  I have been married happily for 26 years, have two children and one grandaughter.  Right now this site is under construction!  Just like me!  My hope is that this blog will chronicle my successful recovery from back surgery and share some helpful hints along the way.  More posts to follow!  May God bless you!

Don’t forget as you undertake you journey, God has your back!

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